Putting the pieces together

So many things i want to achieve this year and so much i have to do (Work, House work, Family). I have always been someone that likes to get the most out of my weekend. My partner is not like that he love to just sit and be (I am the FAT one in the relationship)
 I love to have my whole weekend planned so I can get everything done and remember the weekend as a very for filling sequence of events . Its the Control freak in me i know.
And with numerous decision on the weekend with my partner as to why we are doing this, that and why is everything always planned. It is a hard obsession that has made our relationship very hard to deal with.
So what do I do??.. I have been trying to work that out for about 4 years now (yes i am stubborn as well and like to get my own way)
So I plan some weekend in the month and the others are just flight by the seat of your pants weekends. Which seems to balance things out a little.

On the 7th March I am running in a Fun Run/walk for the RACQ insurance in Brisbane. I also have a Hockey tournament on the gold coast on the 6th -7th march so my Sunday will be very busy. driving up to Brisbane running, then driving but down south to the gold coast for Hockey that will finish about lunch time to spend the rest of the day with my family. (flighting by the seat of pants for the rest of the afternoon). That's the start of March and yes it only gets more controlled and planned from there. February is another story, Thank God that my partner is on holidays for 3weeks. So the weekend that are planned will be balanced with the weekdays of nothing for him to do but surf and have a relax but i do have my mother-in-law in town. something more to add to the mix :)


ox Trace